This week’s Parshah has several messages that spill over into our day and age.
First, when Yaakov was about to meet Esav, Yaakov prepared himself for three things, as Rashi explains: he prepared a present, he prayed, and he was ready to do battle.
He prepared a present for Esav, reflecting all the graft and bribery that the Jews would have to pay during their long exiles to local authorities to continue their existence. As we can empirically see, everything revolves around money. Despite the heavy taxation specifically imposed on the Jews, these governments were never successful in eradicating them. We learn this from Yaakov’s presents to Esav.
Yaakov prayed. He prayed to be saved from “his brother, from Esav.” As Rashi explains, he prayed to be saved from his brother—who outwardly shows love and care, sympathy, and a seemingly helpful attitude. But, and this we must remember, he is still Esav and only seeks to harm Yaakov. Consider the UN and all those states that expressed sympathy for the October 7th attacks. See how much they “care” for Israel. Yet, each and every one compiles vile attacks against us. These are our “brother” nations with whom we seek to coexist!
And Yaakov prepared himself for battle. It is inevitable. Further on in the Parshah, we find that Esav kissed Yaakov. Rashi explains two opinions. First, it was only a partial expression of a greeting—not a whole-hearted emotion. Second, it was a whole-hearted kiss. Yet, as Rashi clarifies, it is well known that Esav HATES Yaakov. Why the kiss? We must understand that Esav is not who he seems; he is always conniving, always planning how to destroy the Jews. So, beware his friendship. Yet, the time will come when Esav will recognize the greatness of Yaakov and will display the honor and respect due to him. Then, it will be whole-hearted!
We see this in the wars that surround Yaakov—the State of Israel—from all its “friendly” neighbors, especially those with whom peace treaties have been signed. See how “supportive” they are: Egypt, Jordan, the ICC, etc. But Rebbe Nachman teaches, “Never Despair!”
The time will come, and it is very, very soon, when Mashiach will come and all hatred and ill feelings will disappear. Our mission, if we wish to accept it, is to pray and pray again. By turning to HaShem, we can survive as we have for the past two thousand years. Eventually, and hopefully soon, Mashiach will come, and we will find true and lasting peace. Amen.
Have a good Shabbos!